"When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child; but when I became a man, I put away childish things."
--First Letter of Paul to the Corinthians
(NOTE: Ok, it is RARE that you will see any sort of a religious reference in this blog...but, since this was the quote that came to mind, it seemed appropriate that I use it.)
Isn't it funny sometimes how seemingly unrelated things can all coalesce when you really put them in perspective? Take today for example...
While shopping for magazines at Barnes & Noble, I picked up a copy of Fangoria. I can't remember the last time I read that magazine and I used to get it regularly when I was a kid.
Later, while walking the dog, I smelled the incredible scent of a charcoal grill off in the distance that made me think of past cookouts.
Before I made dinner, I watched part of the original Star Wars (unfortunately, it was the "special edition" that blows but still a million times better than that horrible new trilogy) and remembered when I sat in the theater amazed at the cinematic wonder before my eyes.
Finally, my good friend from Vegas called and reminded me that tonight was his annual 80s party (not to rub it in, but to express dismay that I couldn't attend). I had gone last year as Magnum, PI and had a blast. However, it would have been a stretch to commute this year, being about 2,500 miles away.
Though it wasn't until I was reading through the latest issue of Wired that all of these events hit me.
You see, the new issue is all about mystery. There are articles on magic, points of interest around the globe (like the Bermuda Triangle, Area 51, etc), and other "mysterious" items such as the Kryptos sculpture at CIA headquarters. In the end, it was the short feature by guest editor JJ Abrams (creator of Lost, Alias, Felicity and Fringe) that helped me to arrive at the conclusion that...
...there really is no sense of "mystery" anymore.
Well there is with certain things, but not to the extent as it was when we were kids. People have taken all the fun out of life.
Sometimes, on days like these, I can recall how much fun it was to just...have fun.
In fact, a friend I hadn't talked to in a while texted me tonight and asked what I was doing. I replied with a question...
"Nothing. But you know what I wish I was doing?"
For some reason, she thought it was something dirty.
Nope.
I confessed that, with as warm as it is, I just wanted to go and find a cool miniature golf course, grab an ice cream cone and just enjoy the weather.
Of course I told her that she could feel free to do something dirty, but, gyrating on that clown's huge tongue on the 11th hole is really going to be detrimental to my making par. It's hard enough to get that ball up the ramp without a nympho flailing around on it. It's even more difficult since my friend lives a few thousand miles away. Actually, it would be even more difficult since most miniature golf courses suck these days and don't even have clowns with long tongues as an obstacle. (Carrying those and the windmills around in my car are getting a tad tiresome too. But hey, I need challenges!)
Anyway, I never want to completely put away childish things. We all need to have more fun in life, even if it's with the simplest of actions or events.
And let's not allow people to ruin even the smallest of mysteries...
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I agree Skitch, I think the trick is to figure out how to make an awesome living doing childish things.
you know Brian reading your comment I couldn't help but feel it would be fun to be a toy tester. That would mean having a legitimate reason to play with all the cool toys we feel ridiculous playing with now.
Sean I agree with you, behaving entirely as an adult is expected to makes life just too boring. Sometimes it's fun to cut loose and do something stupid that gets some stares but is a lot of fun.
Brian,
If I can figure that out, I will definitely let you know! Lol.
Writing is definitely one of them. If you get a chance, check out ESPN.com's articles by Bill Simmons. He has tons of fun and I love his columns!
Karen,
I think a job like Tom Hanks had in Big would be great!
Cut loose? You mean like kicking off your Sunday shoes? All I need is Louise, to please...pull me off of my knees.
Now I'll have Kenny Loggins in my head all day! ;)
Oh yeah a job like that would be heavenly...actually probably as close to the perfect job as it's possible to get.
*slaps Sean not only because of the bad joke but for putting "Footloose" into my head*
Karen,
Well I could have added Steve Miller Band's "Take The Money And Run"
"This here's a story about Billy Joe and Bobbie Sue...two young lovers with nothin' better to do...than sit around the house, get high and watch the tube...and here's what happened when they decided to cut loose"
Their foray in cutting loose turned out a little differently than Kevin Bacon's escapade, however...
God I hate that song. I was better off with Footloose. *slaps Sean for putting a song she doesn't even like in her head*
Ow
Well it worked didn't it, lol? Still have that damn song in my head though...
Although I hesitate to talk about children with the mini-golf nympho lurking about ....
I agree, I'd lost my sense of child-like wonder with the world some time in my 20's. It became about things, stuff, status ... more more more ...
Then ... I did the unthinkable ... I HAD children.
I've found it again.
It's become my motto ... the only reason to HAVE children is to be one again.
Seriously skitcherrooo ... try colouring ... and DON'T stay within the lines!
~ K
Sorry I am a day or 2 behind on this one, but anyhoo....as soon as Phoenix said CUT LOOSE, FOOTLOOSE was ALL I could think about. It's strange because for the last 2 to 3 weeks I have been watching or at least listening to footloose ALL DAY LONG. My neice just did "Footloose The Musical" at school & my daughter has been ADDICTED. 6 yrs old & she knows the movie almost word for word. I do love the movie but enough is enough...
As for cutting loose...Go to a park & slide down the slide a few times, swing for a little while. Lay down & roll down a hill (I remember when I didn't worry about bugs in my mouth or who & what spit or peed in that particular area) Oh ya might want to borrow a friend or family members kid, so people won't think your just WEIRD. Shhh don't tell anyone but thats why I had kids,lol just kidding I really had them for the free cookies at the walmart bakery.LOL
I know what you mean, Debbie, I used to babysit so I could watch Sesame Street and cartoons and not look/feel like a freak. I have a niece now but she likes watching Hanna Montana which just grosses me out. There WAS a lovely Bear in the Big Blue House period though :)
K,
I agree. Things happen that will change your perspective. For me, it's always trying to maintain that level of fun while still being (somewhat) responsible!
;)
Debbie,
That is a good idea to borrow other people's kids. Should it be people I know or do I need to get a white, unmarked van?
I hope it's the former of the two choices!
;)
Karen,
I'll sit here and watch cartoons...I don't care...they make me laugh! Lol. Who cares what people think? As long as it's you who's having a good time!
I'm confused Sean, first you say you're going to borrow kids then you tell ME that there's no need to do that, it's okay to just watch cartoons. Which is it Sean.
By the way, no it's not okay to borrow some stranger's kids, that's called kidnapping and you'll go to jail for it *slaps Sean for not knowing better*
Hahaha yeah I'd go with a kid you know. I wouldn't go the van route because at that point you might have better luck just going alone & hope that kids don't go screaming to mom & dad to leave because of the big freaky guy keeps jumping them in line for the slide. ;) Let me know if you ever try, I would just HAVE to come with a camera,lol. ;)
Karen,
I can have my cake and eat it too...lol.
Another slap? You're very belligerent these days. ;)
Deb,
Ok...I'll save money on the van and candy then!
What's that got to do with anything?
No not belligerent just making up for lost time...hmmm 1 1/2 years divided by 365...wow I'm way behind, lol
Karen,
Just get a slapping machine...that should save you time. ;)
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